The Parallels of Brexit and Trump

Many months ago, before the Brexit votes were placed, I never thought it would happen. My colleagues in and out of London were against it, as were my British friends in the city, and my boyfriend. Being new to the country and not understanding many of the issues the country was facing and regional nuances, it didn’t make sense to me why you’d want to leave the EU.

When it was announced that Brexit had indeed gone through, I was genuinely shocked. The pound plummeted. My boyfriend had trouble focusing at work that day and several of his colleagues and him left mid day to console themselves with (several) pints at the pub. Hate crime against Polish immigrants and Muslims increased nationwide.

I thought it would be a wake up call for Americans in the Clinton vs Trump presidential battle. Don’t make irreversible decisions like the UK did, my fellow Americans, I hoped.

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When Trump first announced his presidency, I thought it was a joke. As time went on though, I obviously realized it wasn’t. Almost everyone I knew was supporting Clinton, however, and the few that were supporting Trump kept quiet about it.

I too found him awful. His comments negatively resonated with me, and didn’t fit with the narrative of my life as a feminist, daughter of a Muslim, and daughter of two immigrants who have worked hard to be successful in this country. To boot, both my parents are extremely patriotic, and raised me to be the same.

To get as far as Trump did though, there obviously had to be people supporting him. As time went on and I saw the poll numbers the night before election day with Clinton leading 2-3%, I didn’t feel any sense of comfort. Just like Brexit shocked me, I felt wary that Trump would pull ahead.

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I woke up Wednesday morning to the news that Trump was the new President-elect of the United States. Part of me felt relieved that the election was over. Most of me just felt disappointed. I didn’t have much of an appetite that day.

However, I’ve watched Trump’s acceptance speech where he hailed Clinton has someone we owe a debt to. I saw him have a productive meeting with Obama. As much as I understand why so many of my fellow Americans are pissed off, the voting is over. We don’t have to like him, but we do have to move forward.

I will pray and hope that the America Trump painted for us in his election season is not the country he actually plans to implement (that wall seems like it’d be awfully expensive). I will hold him to an extremely high standard after all the talking he’s done about ‘Making America Great Again’. I also hope he doesn’t ruin the progress in healthcare and human rights that we’ve made in the past eight years.

Wine Not Visit Luxembourg

Why visit Luxembourg? Wine not!

To be honest, before moving to Europe I hadn’t even heard of Luxembourg. Mark and I decided to visit because it was a new country for us both, and is only a one hour flight from London – perfect for a weekend trip. Continue reading “Wine Not Visit Luxembourg”

Noelle’s Monthly Recap: October 2016

October was a great month filled with lots of time with friends and family. Early in the month Markie and I celebrated his 10th birthday stateside, and I got to catch up with all my friends from home that I hadn’t seen in several months. Later in the month my sister and her friend came to visit London for a week, so I played tour guide to them and showed them the best of the city. I also was able to squeeze in a weekend to the Lake District mid-month, a stunningly scenic area in northwestern England. Continue reading “Noelle’s Monthly Recap: October 2016”

London and Beyond with Sister and Friends

I was a bit pleasantly surprised at myself this past week as my sister and her friend Colleen visited from Wisconsin because I really know my way around London now!

When I first had visitors back in March and April, I felt a bit lost. I led my mom and Markie onto the wrong bus one day, and I wasn’t sure where to go to for good dinners or fun nightlife. What a difference the months have made! So with my sisters nine days in the city, I really wanted her to have the best time possible.

We started her visit with one of my favorite English past times, afternoon tea. We headed to the Hilton Islington for an afternoon of mini sandwiches, scones, and nice pastries – I was so full after!

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The Hilton’s Afternoon tea

Sunday after a late wake up, we headed over to a popular pub in my neighborhood, The Jolly Butchers, for Sunday Roast. Sunday Roast is a delicious English tradition which consists of vegetables, potatoes, Yorkshire pudding, gravy, and a meat – normally beef.

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A delicious Sunday roast

After that, we headed to Big Ben and Parliament. Since it was Sunday, Westminster Abbey was actually free to enter provided you went to a church service. So, I participated in my first Evensong which is basically a  church service that is mostly singing with a sermon included.

The next day, my sister had booked a day trip for us all, so we spent the day at Windsor Castle, followed by Stonehenge and Oxford. While we were at Windsor Castle, the Queen was actually home, but sadly we did not see her (next time!). After was Stonehenge which seemed bigger to me than the first time I visited, and our last stop was Oxford. I’ve been to Oxford twice now as well, but always on bus tours, so my time there has been really rushed. The city is quite beautiful though.

The next evening, in the Kensington area, my friend Miriam had reserved a Groupon wine and cheese tasting for us. The wine tasting was great, and only cost us £12 each! (For the deal we used, click here).

Saturday, my last full day with my sister was jam packed as well. We did an escape room in an old tube station, followed by a bit of shopping in Camden Market, and then walked up to Primrose Hill for a great view of the city.

The evening was concluded with a visit to Madison rooftop bar, and dinner at another great Italian restaurant in Kensington.

Last but not least my week ended with a game I have been waiting for since I bought tickets in February – my hometown team, the Washington Redskins, played against the Cincinnati Bengals at Wembley Stadium in London. Mark and I went and had a great time despite the end result of a tie. Apparently the stadium was sold out that day – an 87,000 attendance!

All in all the week was amazing – it was great to have friends and family in town, spend proper time with my London friends, and have Mark here.

What’s Next?

Next weekend Mark and I are heading to Luxembourg, a small country nestled between Germany, France, and Belgium. We are staying in Luxembourg City to explore the city briefly, and also heading to the Moselle Valley, a wine region in the country.

Till next time all!

Tips for Staying Safe Abroad

As a female often traveling alone (or alone with Markie), making sure we are safe is of my utmost importance. I’d like to think I’m street saavy, but really anyone can be a vulnerable while abroad. Below are nine things I do to try to make sure I stay safe:

Tips for Staying Safe Abroad

Do your research before you go – Wikitravel.org is my go-to source for finding out what kind of crime happens in the destination I am going to. Just type in your destination, and scroll down to the “Stay Safe” (or “Crime”) section. Advice from the website has helped me avoid areas of Panama City that are considered seedy, and learn which taxis are legitimate when traveling in Bulgaria.

Carry pepper spray – When I travel, and even in London, I carry pepper spray. As a female who is often walking alone, I want to feel that I have some sort of protection. Pepper spray is fairly small, and can be easily opened within seconds to spray someone should you need to.

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Moselle River, Remich, Luxembourg

Try to blend in with clothing – When possible, try to wear clothes that are less conspicuous. Don’t wear a shirt with your university on it, or something that gives off immediately that you aren’t a local.

Be weary of strangers who come up to you on the street – I’m not saying all strangers are bad – some may be genuinely asking for directions, but if someone seems too friendly or a bit off, it’s best to keep walking.

Use a cross body purse – A cross body bag keeps your purse valuables close and in front of you, which makes it harder for someone to get to. In crowded situations, I even hold my hand onto my purse to make sure someone isn’t able to sneak their hand into opening my zipper and getting in.

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Castlerigg Stone Circle, Keswick, England

Have your bearings on the city – Before I travel anywhere, I spend time looking at Google Maps and figuring out where my hotel, train stations, points of attraction, etc are in relation to the city. This helps you a lot when you are on the ground, and also prevents you from constantly having to hold up a map to figure out where you are going (ie. making it obvious that you are a tourist).

Separate your money – If you take out a large amount of cash, don’t leave it all in one place. What I will tend to do is put some money hidden in a sock in my suitcase, and keep some on me. I don’t personally trust room safes.

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Stonehenge, England

Don’t make valuables obvious – Traveling is not the time to display your fancy accessories or electronics. I often carry two cell phones (one personal, one for work), but I make sure even when traveling to only take one out at a time, or avoid taking them out at all if I’m in a busy location.

Keep people informed of your whereabouts No matter where I go, I always check in with my parents, a friend, or Mark to let them know my general plans and how things are going.

Do you have any helpful tips to stay safe? Which of the above tips is most useful?